Episode Summary

Today I ask you to imagine yourself living the life you really want.

What does it look like? Can you picture it in detail? And what is holding you back from living this life?

Follow me along on this contemplation of the possibilities in your life.

 

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Episode 19 – Contemplating the possibilities

 

Hello to the world.

Today I would like for you go along and follow my contemplation.

If you have not gotten out of bed, stay a few more minutes.

Or find a comfortable place to sit.

 

Just close your eyes
Breathe

Relax a little
And imagine for a minute –
That you can achieve anything you want

There are no obstacles

Your dreams come true

Career, relationships, financial, adventure

Imagine it for a minute

What would you do?

 

Would you hustle a little bit more?

Work harder on pursuing your dream?

Be ok with some discomfort for a while?

Maybe try one more time after you failed yet again?

 

If I could give you just a glimmer of certainty that your dreams may come true, would you go for it with more grit?

 

Because the truth is – you are uncertain what will happen.

And in the face of uncertainty you tuck your tail and rather take the easy road and give up

Or you don’t even start.

Lets not worry about it. What time does Game of Thrones start?

Distraction.

Settling

Not worth the fight

 

Is that you?

Why?

 

Just now you were able to dream a little and imagine living your dreams.

Why cant you translate into reality?

What is missing?

 

What are the little things that stop you?

What are the big things?

 

Is it your beliefs of your own worthiness?

Life is not a ranking system
There is not big bearded man in heaven that hits you over the head every time you say something wrong

There is no perfect life you have to life to be admitted to the gates to heaven
There are no rules to live by to be considered good and worthy
Maybe you stole something yesterday

Maybe you fought with your parents

Lied to your spouse

Or anything much more worse

today you can turn your life around with a click of a finger

with a decision to change

 

its never too late, no matter how old you are or what you have done

 

Do you have too many obstacles holding you back?

Is someone or something holding you back
The person in your life that is sucking up all your positive energy?

The house or town you cannot leave?

The talents you think you are lacking?

 

Are all these obstacles so big that you cannot overcome them?

Or can you think again – imagine yourself accomplishing that dream of yours.

 

Nothing happens until you take massive action.

Whats holding you back?

Procrastination?

Fear?

Fear of taking responsibility for yourself?

 

 

In order to meet the love of your life, you need to be free.

So if you are with someone who brings you down, then maybe its time for good-byes

 

In order to find your dream job, you need to have the character and the skills

So maybe its time to hustle and apply yourself

 

In order to start a business, you need funds, and people that help you

So maybe its time to get out and network

 

In order to discover what you want to do with your one amazing life, ask yourself how you can combine passion with purpose.

Which talents can you explore
Talents you deemed insignificant long time ago
Something others told you doesn’t pay

So you went the safer route

The unhappy route

 

Ask again

 

And imagine yourself living the life you really want

What does it look like?

 

Make time for contemplation like this regularly. Let your mind wander. Its good. Go in search of possibilities. Nothing happens. You are not jumping off a cliff. You are exploring.

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