Make yourself uncomfortable – QFY 469

Make yourself uncomfortable – QFY 469

Making ourselves uncomfortable on purpose? Its not the first thing that comes to mind. But what if its exactly what we need to do in order to get started with the thing we have been wanting to do for so long? What if we purposely go out of our way to take the longer, more difficult route home? On this episode I challenge you to go for something uncomfortable in the upcoming days and then look back to see how it feels. It may prompt you to do more of it.

Your To Don’t List – QFY 468

Your To Don’t List – QFY 468

A to-do list can help us focus and get stuff don’t. But it can also grow to an extend where we are unable to accomplish everything on that list. That is where a to-don’t list can come in handy. It contains those things that hold us back from getting our priorities done. These are the things we agree to not do – like always helping others before doing our own work.

When you are stuck – QFY 466

When you are stuck – QFY 466

Sometimes we get stuck. We don’t know where to go from here. I have three elements in my life that help me get unstuck every time. In this episode, I share specific activities with you around each one that can hep you too. When we need direction, we need to seek connection.  Its often the distraction with mindless matters that creates distance from our goals, so we need to reconnect.That connection can be with nature, with other people, or with ourselves.

Our addiction to being busy – QFY 465

Our addiction to being busy – QFY 465

In a world that is all about results and checking off to-do’s, we easily get caught in busyness. It feels great to create lists and schedules. But without noticing, we are running rounds in a hamster wheel – every day the same without ever reaching the next level. Our busyness keeps us trapped and distracted. We need to go out of our way to pause so we can get clear on where we really want to go.

Guard your thoughts over your things – QFY 463

Guard your thoughts over your things – QFY 463

We value our possessions. We also spend a lot of time thinking about them. And when something happens to them, we worry about them. We should take good care of our things but we need to remember that they can be gone in an instant. Our thoughts about them are more important. they decide how we feel and act. They determine if we have a good day or a bad one. So we need to carefully watch them, more so than our things, which are replaceable. 

Make yourself uncomfortable – QFY 469

The case of the serious car – QFY 462

The case of the serious car is my story of an attempted car purchase and the lessons I learned from this rather disappointing experience. Preparation is key for any major purchase. But even then, be ready to leave your desired object behind if you are not being treated properly. As a customer, I want to feel valued and appreciated but if I am only an object that brings potential revenue, I will take my business elsewhere. Its important to keep our dignity.

Fear of being vulnerable – QFY 461

Fear of being vulnerable – QFY 461

Why are we so afraid of being vulnerable? We all have this fear – of being exposed, hurt, seen. And yet, without risking all of it just a little, we don’t live fully. We are standing on the banks of the river, afraid to jump, and never discover whats on the other side. Expectations increase our fear. When we are tied to a certain outcome, we are less likely to take a chance. If we can go into new situations with fewer expectations, we will notice our fear ebb a little and courage rise to the top.