Living with an open heart

Living with an open heart

Dear Quest Fans: Laura and I have been offering journaling workshops for over a year now, almost every month. They tend to be on weekday afternoons, and she could tell you that I often arrive stressed, tense, worried that something is not in order. But as soon as...
What are you resisting?

What are you resisting?

Dear Quest Fans: Last week a friend showed up to our hike wearing a sweater with RESIST printed across the chest in big bold letters. To be honest — that word makes me shudder a little. It does every time I see it, and I see it a lot around Oakland. Signs in windows,...
On controlling other people

On controlling other people

Some people come to a coaching session with a problem that, at first glance, is caused by someone else. I hear statements like: “I can’t be happy because he doesn’t listen to me.” “I dropped out of the workshop because they weren’t my kind of people.” “She said mean...
Life as an assignment

Life as an assignment

Ever since COVID, it sometimes feels like the world has been dishing out one major event after another. Most of us didn’t plan any of it, didn’t ask for it, and certainly didn’t create it. And yet here we are, living inside it. We each have our own names for the...
Our circumstances pull on us

Our circumstances pull on us

Some mornings I wake up and feel really down—on myself, and on the world. There’s always plenty I could point to: Will AI eliminate half the jobs? Is a recession coming? What happens when my mom gets sick? There’s no shortage of “looming” things I can grab onto and...
Event: Mar 6 2026 | Coffee & Change

Event: Mar 6 2026 | Coffee & Change

Challenge your thinking. Reflect deeply. Play with your next step. Our Topic This Week: Your Relationship with yourself. When was the last time you checked in with how you truly see yourself? This session is all about the most important relationship in your life....
Event: Mar 6 2026 | Coffee & Change

Event: Jan 30 2026 | Coffee & Change

Challenge your thinking. Reflect deeply. Play with your next step. Our Topic This Week: Resistance: Why It Shows Up & How to Work With It Why does it feel like we have to fight against ourselves to achieve the things we truly want? What to Expect: A small group of...
Event: Mar 6 2026 | Coffee & Change

Event: Jan 16 2026 | Coffee & Change

Challenge your thinking. Reflect deeply. Play with your next step. Coffee & Change is a recurring gathering in local cafés for people who want to think more clearly, challenge old narratives, and consider new possibilities. Each session centers around a real-life...